Anonymous asked: I was at this dance party the other night, and one of my really close friends (who knows I'm not the straightest person ever), just grabbed my hand while we were dancing and I felt this odd spark go through myself. What does it mean? :/ I love this girl, but it's not her I'm in love with. I'm in love with some other girl. But does this mean I'm definitely gay, or at least bi? I'm not attracted to guys in any way, by the way. Thanks!
It’s funny how familiar that sounds. Dancing with a girl was my *a-ha* moment… I came out that weekend. When you feel such a strong feeling it’s hard to ignore. The girl you were dancing with might not be who you want to be with (man I wish I has known that!) but she might be the one you needed to be true to yourself. You don’t have to label yourself as anything if you’re not ready or still unsure. At east now you know the attraction is real
Oh and if you don’t like guys in any way I do think it’s safe to say you’re not bisexual ;)
