Anonymous asked: I have a really good friend named Jessica; I get a sort of vibe from her, like a lesbian vibe even though she likes boys and has been with them. I don’t know what it is but I think I like her more than a friend and I am completely confused! The weird thing is, I was a lot closer with her TWIN sister and we were basically best friends. But I never felt anything for her. And I feel like I want to be WITH Jessica as if I would be with a boy. Am I turning lesbian or is this a stage?? I'm confused.
No one “turns” lesbian. There is no magic pill or event in life that makes someone gay.
If you have these feelings it is because you are beginning to learn who you are. It is possible that this is just an experimental stage in your life or, you are bisexual or lesbian. Either way, there is nothing to worry about.
If Jessica does like girls and you happen to be one of them she likes than I’d say you’re all set. Try to bring up the subject of sexuality sometime. Gay marriage, someone on TV who is gay… just the subject and see where it goes from there. She may come out or she may just be a supporter. I can’t tell you what will happen but if you think it’s worth it to find out, go ahead! Good luck :)
